Losing stop-loss really is like a breakup; the longer you drag it out, the more painful it gets. Clearly knowing something's wrong, yet still toughing it out and making excuses, in the end, either losing more or having your mindset worn down, even when sleeping you think "just one more bounce and I’ll leave"... Honestly, admitting loss earlier actually saves interest, saving the emotional interest.

Recently, Meme and celebrity calls have gone in circles again, with veteran members in the group advising newcomers not to take the final step every day. I also feel a bit guilty watching: many times I can see the enthusiasm waning, but I’m reluctant to give up that little "possible turnaround" fantasy.

What I regret isn’t the outcome, but that I knew I should cut and still pretended nothing was wrong. From now on, I’ll set a deadline for myself; when it comes, I’ll leave. No more falling in love with myself.